
FAQ
What is the dress code?
We’d love to see our family and friends dressed in black tie optional.
Can I bring a plus one?
Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitations. If you received a plus one, they should appear when you RSVP via the QR code on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding!
Can I bring my kids?
As much as we love your little ones, we have decided to have an adults-only wedding event with the exception of immediate family. If this causes major inconveniences, please reach out to us and we will see what we can do!
What is the parking/transportation situation on the wedding day?
There will be valet parking at the wedding venue for those who wish to drive to the wedding.
If you do plan on drinking, we want everyone to do it safely. We will be providing Uber vouchers for you to spend toward your ride to and from our wedding. The vouchers are only valid on our wedding day up until the next morning and will be provided closer to the wedding date, so stay tuned!
Where and when do I RSVP? What if I can’t make it?
Formal invites and RSVPs are on their way to your mailboxes now. In the meantime, if you already know you cannot make it, please let us know!
Are there any rules for your wedding venue?
Although marijuana is legal in California, the venue strictly prohibits it. Also, due to the nature of the environment, smoking is only allowed in designated areas.
Is there a hotel room block?
There are no hotel room blocks. Please see the travel page for suggested accommodations.
Will the wedding be outside or inside?
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place outdoors.
Will there be a bar?
Yes! We will have an open bar with beer, wine, signature drinks, and non-alcoholic beverages.
Can I take photos?
We are having an “unplugged” ceremony (no phones or cameras). We’d love for everyone to stay present during the ceremony. There will be talented photographers and videographers capturing the moments. After the ceremony, please take all the photos!!! We will provide a QR code to a shared Google Drive so we can all share photos from the day.
Will there be plans after the wedding day?
Since our wedding will be in wine country, we will be taking time after the wedding day to drive down and explore the beauty of San Diego. Everyone is welcome to join us afterwards. Those details and coordination will be shared closer to the wedding date.
